I used to be a Nice Guy(TM), but I am trying to change my ways. These are my stories and my thoughts, offered as a public service. If you have ever felt sad and rejected because the girl you have been courting for years still refuses to sleep with you, and then realized what an idiot you were being (and that you were not being "nice" at all), this may be the place for you. As it turns out, there are many reasons to be nice to women other than getting laid. That this still comes as a revelation to many people is part of why I feel the need to speak out.